Dating a loser joseph carver
""With all I have to put up with, I deserve to take a few supplies from the office.""With the kind of day I had, you expect me to mow the lawn?
""All the taxes I pay, and they bother me about this little deduction! Superiority is the implication, at least through body language or tone of voice, that someone is better than someone else.
Their blame of others can make you look great by comparison:"You're so smart, sensitive, caring, and loving, not like that bitch I used to go out with.""Why couldn't I have met you before that self-centered, greedy, woman I used to date?
""You're so calm and together, and she was so crazy and paranoid."Hearing this kind of thing might make you think that all he really needs is the understanding and love of a good woman to change his luck.
Blamers can be dangerous to love because they usually suffer from victimidentity.
Feeling like victims, they see themselves as justified in whatever retaliation they enact and whatever compensation they take.
I think there's probably a link between losers and offenders.
But don't fall for these lines from him: I want to see how we work together before we tie the knot.
So it seems only fair, from their myopic perspectives, that they get compensation for their constant frustrations. Here's the logic:"It's so hard being me, I shouldn't have to wait in line, too!
People with a sense of entitlement believe that they deserve special consideration and special treatment.
They may cut in front of others waiting in line, smoke wherever they want, drive any way they want, say anything they like, and do pretty much anything they choose.
Or, I don't want to get married till I can buy you a proper ring, or have a nice wedding, or save money to buy a nicer home or car, or I want to pay off some bills before I get married. He's looking for a Room-mate, THAT COOKS AND CLEANS AND GIVES HIM FREE SEX, and pays half of the bills so he has more money. RIGHT, and you just allowed him to say, "You're not her" and went along with it.
You're worth more then what he is willing to offer, be smart run fast! I would have even told her that two years ago when I first came across her blog, but she wouldn't have believed me then.
Blamers will certainly cause pain for you if you come to love one.